My name is Ben Nair. I run a maritime consultancy focused on port-related work—everything from planning to engineering for projects connected to the sea. It’s a family business, which naturally led me into this path. I studied in Liverpool, a historic maritime hub, and today we’re headquartered in Sabah, operating across Malaysia and the region, including Thailand, Vietnam, and Indonesia. So if you’re planning to build a port or jetty, I’m your guy.
I’ve always had a deep passion for anything nautical. Growing up, I spent a lot of time with my dad on boats, which naturally introduced me to the maritime world—vessels, the ocean, and life at sea. There’s always been something about it that pulled me in, almost a romantic connection to it.
Being someone who spends a lot of time at sea, I used a lot of products to keep my hair in place when I started losing it—almost cementing it—so the wind wouldn’t expose any thinning spots. I wanted my hair to stay solid and “waterproof,” but that probably made the hair loss worse.
I realize now that my hair started to gradually thin about 10 years ago, but I only noticed it after having kids—nothing to do with the kids, of course, I won’t say that too loudly (laughs). But it was around that time when everything seemed to come together—more responsibilities, work, getting older, a slightly unhealthy lifestyle, and not getting enough sleep, which I think was a major factor.
My hair loss made me a little more self-conscious and it affected my confidence in subtle ways—like looking at photos of myself and wondering if I looked okay, or if I was happy with how I came across. That was always in the back of my mind.
I also found myself thinking about where this might lead—whether I’d eventually go completely bald. I even considered the idea of a comb-over, but I knew that wasn’t something I’d want. If it ever got to that point, I’d probably just shave it all off.
The truth is, my hair matters to me. Of course, I could brush it off and say, “Ah, it’s just hair,” but honestly, that’s not the case. If I had to rate it on a scale of 1 to 10, it’s easily an eight or nine. It really does affect how I feel about myself day to day. My hair gives me confidence, and I care about showing up as my best self—and that naturally includes my hair.
I’ve tried different over-the-counter products—sprays and things like that—but never for long. I wasn’t very consistent, and over time, I started losing hope. It did get to me a bit, seeing my hair thin out.
What made it more ironic was that my dad still has a full head of thick hair. It’s kind of wild—even at his age, his hair is still great. I always joke that it’s the Indian genes—his hair may have turned white, but it’s still incredibly thick. Honestly, he’s got more hair than I do.
People always joke about bad hair days—but when you’re trying to hide hair loss, it’s a whole different level. On days when my hair just wouldn’t cooperate, it was honestly stressful, especially if I had meetings or presentations coming up.
Even beyond that, losing my hair created this constant background stress. It was always on my mind. It affected my confidence, and I started thinking about how people might see me or judge me. All those little doubts—they really add up.
Back then, I’d always angle myself a certain way in photos so it wasn’t too obvious. I basically had a few “safe” poses I kept repeating. So yeah—that’s the truth, all my secrets are out. But it’s fine, now that I’ve got my hair back, I can laugh about it.
I actually ended up trying Ooosh!™ because of my wife. I had kind of lost hope at that point, but she was experiencing postpartum hair loss and really wanted to try it. She was pretty set on it.
So I went along to support her—thinking, “Well, since I’m here, I might as well do it too.” We ended up signing up together, and as they say, the rest is history.
When I first signed up, I guess I was expecting some kind of magic fix—like a secret formula or special device that would just make everything grow back. But when they explained it, it was actually very simple and natural—supplements, weekly sessions, and just sticking with it.
I remember thinking, “Okay… that’s it?” I was still optimistic because of all the testimonials and success stories, but in the back of my mind, there was still that question: Is this really going to work? And I think that’s a pretty normal feeling.
The turning point for me was during the scans. When they showed me the close-up images, I could actually see the baby hairs growing—and that’s when it clicked. I thought, “Okay, something is really happening here.”
There wasn’t a big “wow” moment—it was more of a gradual realization. But honestly, it turned out better than I expected. I didn’t go in with high expectations, which might have helped—but the results still exceeded what I imagined.
After Ooosh!™, I don’t have to force my hair into that “cemented,” windproof style anymore. I’m so glad those days are over—it actually feels like freedom.
I’ve stopped using all those products. Now I just keep it natural, and honestly, it feels so much better. I’m really, really happy to have my hair back.
All that stress about hair loss—it’s behind me now. I feel more relieved and less burdened by those constant concerns. People might say it’s just aesthetics, but it does affect you, especially when you don’t feel confident in photos with the people you care about, like your family and friends. Now though? Different story. I’m good. Let’s go.
Having hair isn’t about vanity—it’s about wanting to look your best and put your best foot forward. When something is bothering you—whether it’s a personal issue, a bad start to the day, or even your hair—it can affect how you show up, especially in situations like presentations.
But when that concern is no longer there, you naturally feel more at ease. You present better, you speak better. That’s been one of the biggest changes for me. It may seem like a small thing, but it really isn’t—it’s part of the bigger picture. When you feel comfortable and confident, it makes all the difference.
I take much better care of my scalp and hair now—I’ve developed healthier habits overall. I only use Ooosh!™ shampoo, and I’ve cut down on styling products—no chemicals, no wax.
All the products I used to rely on are just sitting there unused now. I don’t need them anymore, because I’m no longer trying to cover up thinning hair—I actually have hair again.
For anyone going through hair loss, I’d say this—I didn’t even realize I was doing things wrong. I was just doing what everyone else does, using whatever products were out there, thinking they’d help.
But now I see things differently. I would encourage everyone to take the time to understand your scalp and what it actually needs. Because some of the things we think are helping—like piling on wax or forcing your hair to stay in place—can actually make it worse. So do your research, learn what works, and figure out what’s best for you.
Don’t be afraid to reach out—that’s the biggest thing. I was lucky, I ended up going because I was accompanying my wife. But I know there’s a bit of a stigma for guys when it comes to asking for help. We tend to keep things to ourselves or think we can just deal with it on our own. And especially with hair loss, I wish it weren’t so stigmatized to ask for help.
Don’t be afraid to reach out for help.
Ben Nair
I’d really encourage guys to just take that first step—reach out, ask questions, even just inquire. I know that alone can feel like a big step. I’ve told friends of mine who are going through the same thing, and their first reaction is, “Ah, that means I have to go to a center…” That hesitation is real.
But honestly, just get past that. Drop by, have a look. It’s easier said than done—I know that. Even for me, I only did it because I happened to be there with my wife. But once I sat down, got assessed, everything changed.
My name is Ben, and I’m grateful—for the opportunity to be here and for the chance to serve. By that, I mean sharing my experiences and the lessons I’ve learned along the way.
This is my Ooosh!™ story, and I hope it can have a positive impact on others.
